What is color theory

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Gotta say, there aren’t a lot of sugar mommas seeking lesbian sugar babies out there. Might need to try out financial domination instead, since then I could be paid to be repulsed by men with big paychecks who think they’re worthy of my time.

Don’t say that you might make an exception for the right man on a dating site, it makes all the loser is dudes with too much money and not enough personality come out.

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10 years ago today, Ebony Dark’ness Dementia Raven Way went back in time to sedouce Volxemort and protect all of us from his evil plans

reblog this post to honor Enoby’s brave sacrifice, ignore if you’re a prep or a poser

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if i ever stop reblogging this assume I am dead


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Anonymous asked: Re: your "rule about naked people" -- How about people who take nude photos of themselves not be stupid and use storage devices that can be hacked, like cloud storage (or take any risks close to that)? Just HOW much personal responsibility does your generation need to shed before you get it through your thick skulls that it only costs $20 for a decent external hard drive these days? :|


"The lock on your diary wasn’t very good, so it’s your fault I read your diary."

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So, i read this awful article using bathroom “scare tactics,” which was claiming that trans women are potential rapists. “Men” who dress as women to gain access to women only spaces and force them self on women. This really upset me and i had a bit of a Twitter rant. They were read by others and i was urged to post them in other media also, so i am posting them here. (Edited together in easy reading format from top to bottom.)

This is the link in the first tweet about how there are no cases of a trans woman attacking a cis woman in public restrooms: Link 1.

This is the link in the second tweet about the cases where trans people are assaulted in the bathroom by cis people: Link 2.

if you’re cis and you follow me i’m gonna need you to reblog this

don’t care if you’re cis or trans, this is important.

I have rebagled this before and I’m doing it again

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Some Handy Examples of How Non-Sex Working Feminists Can Aid in Critiquing the Sex Industry

Your women's studies prof:
Class, do you think pornography enables male entitlement?
Well, according to this essay I read by someone who does porn, it doesn't make a lot of sense to just critique it as a piece of media + not a site + product of highly stigmatized labor. So, yes, it does, but that may largely be beside the point of where and how male violence occurs in relation to pornography.
That lady at your local NOW chapter:
It is WRONG for men to purchase sex, therefore we must make it illegal.
I agree that capitalist conditions create coercive and abusive situations for those in the sex industry, but carceral solutions don't address that underlying issue.
Your younger sister:
*points at a Maxim magazine cover* Isn't it wrong that there are all these sexualized pictures of women everywhere?
It's wrong that the male gaze is all-pervasive and our idea of the ideal woman is profoundly racist, sizeist, ableist, and cissexist. It's also wrong that these images exist within the context of a violent patriarchal culture, but the images themselves are not wrong.
Some rando in your ask box:
How do we end the abuse of people in the sex industries?
Let me link you to this blog by sex workers advocating for workers' rights.
Your boyfriend:
Why is there so much bad sex in porn?
Let me show you this essay on porn by a sex worker.
Your girlfriend:
Stripping is exploitative.
Let me show you this academic article written by a stripper.
Your aunt:
Dominatrices probably think they're empowered but really--
Here's a thing written by a sex worker.
Your grandpa:
Here's a thing written by a sex worker.
Your cat:
Good point, let me read you this issue of Prose & Lore out loud.
*signal boosts our words + shows up at rallies + emails legislators + gives orgs like Abeni + Sex Workers Project all your damn money*

Filed under do your thing and get sex workers the rights and protection they deserve protect sex workers always sex work sex workers rights

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FetLife is just one huge clusterfuck of embarrassing men complaining about how they’re not getting laid in spite of their serial-killer vibes, anti-feminist blogging and zero investment in the social aspect of the kink scene.

I know it’s been said before, but goddamn.

It’s a great way to pick up on who you never ever want to talk to at a party.

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